Relationships, of all kinds, are the fruit of life. Focus on the similarities between you and others; appreciate and respect the differences. Give someone the gift of your time. Be present in the moment. Look for opportunities to be of service. Only when you are “fit”, do you have something to offer someone else, so take good care of YOU. Don’t give away what you don’t have, but know that the only way to ‘keep’ what you do have is to be willing to give it away; ‘keep’ is a form of control.